8 Big Dating-Dress-Code Don'ts We Learned From the Fashion Crowd

The last thing we want on date night is to feel basic. So, we're banishing any bad outfit clichés or tired date-dressing formulas (read: the bandage dress with peep-toe pumps) that really don't work for everyone. Instead, we're taking cues from girls who really get fashion — and, sometimes, get dating too. No, it's not about wearing the latest trends or the highest heels; these looks are lessons in refining your personal style and a reminder to stop overthinking your look, even when the first-date jitters kick in. Scroll for the outfit wisdom you can apply to any date.

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Repeat After Me: You Don't Have to Wear Heels
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Repeat After Me: You Don't Have to Wear Heels

Confidence is always sexy, but teetering around in four-inch heels isn't. So, if you're more comfortable in flats or wedges, go for it (yes, even at night!). You're bound to be more confident and, therefore, a lot sexier to your date, too.

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Don't Go Overboard on Accessories
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Don't Go Overboard on Accessories

We love a great pair of earrings or a pretty necklace to glam up for a big night; just don't overdo it. You'll want your date to see you without being distracted by your neon statement necklace or your oversize hoops. When in doubt, keep it simple — your smile is always your best accessory anyway, right?

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Don't Be Afraid to Wear Jeans
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Don't Be Afraid to Wear Jeans

There's nothing wrong with wearing your favorite jeans, especially when they look this cool. Dress them up with a fun tee or blouse, and finish them off with polished flats or sexy heels for a look that says "I don't need a miniskirt to feel sexy."

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Don't Be an Ad For the Latest Trends
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Don't Be an Ad For the Latest Trends

Sure, it's nice to look on top of your fashion game, but a date really isn't the time to showcase every trend you've bought in the last five months. Instead, find that dress you always get compliments in, and really wow 'em.

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Don't Shy Away From Color
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Don't Shy Away From Color

Make a memorable first impression with a bold wash of color. They'll always remember you — and you'll stand out all night — in a beautiful blue dress or bright yellow blouse. Pick the color that complements your skin tone best, and work it!

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Don't Be Afraid to Be Different
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Don't Be Afraid to Be Different

You don't have to wear a bandage dress to be sexy — in fact, an element of surprise might just make your outfit that much more exciting and memorable. Try topping a miniskirt with a cozy sweater or adding a pair of strappy sandals to boyfriend jeans. These are the styling effects that will give a little insight to your personality and remind them how you're different from the rest.

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Don't Forget to Show Off Your Best Assets
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Don't Forget to Show Off Your Best Assets

If you're self-conscious about any part of your body, there's always a way to disguise it and flatter the parts you want to show off. Don't think "date night" means you have to wear a dress if you don't want to show too much leg. Instead, look for a great pair of silky trousers, and top them with a tank that shows off your arms. Your date won't ever notice the part you don't want him to.

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Whatever You Do, Don't Show Your Underwear on the First Date
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Whatever You Do, Don't Show Your Underwear on the First Date

While we always want you to be yourself, embrace your personal style, and feel comfortable in your skin, we don't think it's ever a good idea to show this much of it — at least not on the first date.